VJ

I am going to have a short diversion from the whole 'online dating' thing to discuss the 'real' offline world. Basically I want to talk about someone who I work with who I feel very attracted to but who I fear either doesn't feel the same way about me or is completely oblivious to the way I feel.

Just to describe her somewhat, she is originally from the Philippines (Yeah, I know what you're going to say. I do like Asian women but don't all guys!!!) and is probably just average in looks although she is cute. But more importantly she is someone who is great to talk to, has a brilliantly devilish sense of humour and is a very caring person. In other words she is very, very nice. Oh yeah, she has a perfect body too.

As I said, I don't think she knows I am interested in her and I'm not so sure she's interested in me. I am not going to push things too far as we are very good friends and I really cherish our friendship a lot and would not want to do anything to jeopardise it. We also have to work together and I wouldn't want to do anything that would make that uncomfortable either.

Anyone want to give me some advice on how I should play this???