Awkward

I have just had a very awkward situation occur a couple of hours ago. I have been regularly emailing MS and we have been getting to know each other pretty well. Today she asked if she could become one of my Facebook friends. I don't mind as this will enable us to chat more regularly and get to know each other outside the confines of match.com.au.
The only problem is that VJ is also a Facebook friend and will ask me a thousand questions when she sees another Filipina who is the same age as her add me as a friend. Things have been really progressing well with VJ and we both seem to have formed a very strong bond. Even if we don't end up as a couple we are still the best of friends, although I do think that we are destined for more than that.
I wonder what VJ's reaction will be. As I said, she will ask a thousand questions, but I wonder whether they will be the curious type or the jealous type. Naturally I have pushed her a little bit by IM'ing her about something MS said about a Filipino delicacy which she is an expert at cooking. I haven't had a response yet, but guess I will within the next 24 hours. I hope I'm not disappointed!!!
I know that this sounds as though I am using MS as a pawn in a game, but I do think she is a nice girl. Perhaps she's too nice for me? From what we have talked about she is not very experienced with men and most likely still a virgin at 31. I think this is perhaps to do with her strong Catholic beliefs and family bonds (she still lives at home) as she is really cute. I would not want to hurt her at all and I do like her a lot. It's just that my feelings for VJ run very deep.
As I said, VJ and I share a very special bond, something that I have only had with one other person (not P). Of course that person, FT, just wanted to be friends (sigh!). We spend a lot of time flirting at work and have given each other little hints as to our true feelings for each other. It will be interesting to see where things go from here.